Bidding Good Bye’s are always difficult….

 The reality of life & one of my favorite lines:

You came naked,

You will go naked.

You arrived weak,

You will leave weak.

You came without money and things,

You will leave without money and things.

Your first bath? Someone washed you.

Your last bath? Someone will wash you.

This is life!!!

we never know when we are on our last days. Which is our last night our last hug, laugh, cry, or pain.

It’s a human saying that a girl is always attached to her father and a boy is always attached to his mother.

Before marriage father will be like if you want you can take “Pata Nhi tera Ghar Kase Hoga vha terko milage ya NHI aj terko jo cheye tu Lele Kal kya hoga”

Father always ensures that the dream, demand of her daughter must be complete. At the time of marriage of a girl, the father is the only person who cries a lot as his princess will leave their house and gonna settle in another house.  

He hardly talks to his daughter but always ensures from his wife if she is indeed of anything.

The importance of being a father is so different in a daughter's life even if this relation faces lots of ups and downs but the father is always different from every other relationship in every girl's life.

The day we woke up everything was on the routine in the house. The last night Nannu was not well he was roaming in the house. So, he slept at 4 Am. So we preferred not to disturb him let him sleep take complete rest and we will wake him after some time.

Ladies are enjoying tea on the balcony kids were watching cartoons. Nanni went to wake him up so that he can have some breakfast and then he can sleep properly. He called him many times but no response was received. They called the nurse who leaves near the house to check if everything is fine...

Every second is like hell why isn’t he responding a few hours back he was walking on the balcony now what had happened. The nurse arrived, the heartbeat of every person was so high. Everyone was waiting for the nurse to say that he is fine. But no one knows that was his last night with us. The noise he was creating was last will not be able to listen to this ever in our lives.

Everyone arrives to bid goodbye but the daughter was so helpless at that moment as who will ask for my demands, who will wait for me at the door when we use to visit my father’s house.

 Due to some situations, the cremation was on the next day. That night Nannu was on the balcony and every child was sleeping next to him. The last sleep with the father who is no more in this world.

People come but will never be able to listen to the small noises or the loud noise “chai NHI Banani kya”.

Everyone says “ana hai toh Jana Bhi hai” but giving farewell will always so difficult.