When a child is born who sbke liye bahut special hota hai coz who first hai sab bahut payar krte hai usko uska ek ek moment jase mamu ki shadi p tune yeh kiya that u yha se gira teri first demand tera first word and all Mom Dad sab yad rkhte hai kyuki who first hota hai. Usse uthna time dete hai taki who sab family members k sath mix up hojaye or usko adjust krna ane lge.
Phir ek time ata hai jab usko acha nhi lgta ki mere Mom Dad mera sara homework kra dete hai or merko apne friends k liye wait krna padta hai ya phir jab who dekhte hai ki unke classmates ka koi elder brother sister hai jo unki care krta hai half time mai uske sath tuffin share krne ata hai ya jab who bimar ho toh uski take care b krta hai.
Woh time hota hai jab usko realize hota hai mera b koi bhai ya bhen hona cheye jiske liye mai who sab karu jo mere sath toys share kare or hum mil kr shaymko cycling kare.. us time ase demand hoti hai ki jase bahr shop p jao or brother-sister le aao… the first stage when a immature mind speaks for some support.
After a period of time when new member takes the birth and enter as a part of new member. The first one after seeing brother/sister yeah toh bahut chota hai yeah bda kab hoga, khelega kab itna sare questions uff.
Being parent and managing kids is too difficult anyways now it’s the time when new member ki koi ceremony hoti hai sab family members ghar ate hai gifts late hai but sab chotu baby ek complex feeling aati hai in the elder one usko lgta hai ab koi usko payar nhi krta sb chotu baby ko uthate hai gifts bhi usko dete hai at this stage child start feeling ignored from everyone.
Jab ek age ho jati hai ek understanding ban jate hai ya fir we can say ki adjustment hojati hai tb siblings mai ldae hoti hai teri meri vali koi side nhi hota ek dusre se fir Mom Dad unko yad dilate hai bachpan mai ek icecream se dono khate the aj sath nhi beth skte fir parents hmesha chote ko immature samajh kr side krk elder one ko gussa krte hai.
Elder one itna zyada use to n already heart ho chukka hota ki usko yhi samajh ata hai parents Biased hai bus yhi thoughts ate hai every time I am the only one who is liable for each and every act in the house.
Yeah toh hai jb two opposite siblings ho if agar two sisters ho toh uska kya
Yeah vale siblings thore se different hote hai elder one over protected hoti hai rok tok bahut zyada hoti hai yeah mat kro ase mat betha kro ise bat mat kro pdae p dhyan do yeah apki friend achi nhi hai yeah vale kapde merko chote hogya hai yeah tu lele I will buy new ones kyu bhai mai choti hun merko hmesha purane kpde kyu..
Koi kisi k sath happy nhi hota na hi koi kisi k sath biased hr story ki apna charm hota hai or apna pyar asa mat samajho ki parents biased hai bus who us moment ko end krne k liye gussa hojate hai…
