QUESTIONS

Being a girl is so difficult to manage all the things. When a girl is young parents starts teaching the manner and norms which they need to follow after being married they are always in a pressure to follow the rules and regulation they are not allowed to be independent. Even when we are in public places there is always a voice from behind which tells to “sit properly, don’t laugh loud, behave properly”. All this shit is just for the girls. WHY??

Whys should boys have all the fun why they need to prove the girl that he is well educated well mannered or virgin??

Why girls have to prove their virginity to everyone?

Having an orthodox parent is more difficult than a man in the prison. Why all the things are for the girls why God even to felt that a single girl can deal with all the pains and responsibility.

If laughter is for everyone than why can’t a girl laugh or drink with the people. If girls have to start their life with the boy, then why can’t they sit, laugh, drink and smoke with the boy? Why it is prohibited before marriage?

These questions should be raised. Everybody has the right to live life as they desire irrespective of their gender.

Some Prints of ChildHood

Everyone has the beautiful memories of childhood which brings smile  at every ones face, while scrolling on to the pictures or small talks when the guest arrives. Some memories were just to stay home without going to school or bunk with the tuition mates for long drive at the back of the best friend.
After all the fun there was always a connection and a trust within the friendship. We are ready to do any act either favorable or not. But that trust and faith lies only when we are small kid as we grow up there were lots of mind we connect with some are in good terms, some for the selfish reasons and some gives us the lesson for the life time which makes us strong from the bottom of out heart. Through this break down a child always start acting as if he mature enough to stay strong in every situation.

So, breakup's are the part of life which always gives us the lesson to deal with...

PRIORITY

Today I came home to feel the air of my childhood, to feel the love of parents, which I used to get over phone calls or video calls only from the past 3 years. The time I was packing my bags to go home after all the hectic days and ups and downs of my life, I actually had forgotten my first priority, i.e., my parents.
 
The time I was a kid, the life of my parents revolved around taking care of my things (kashu kuch khaya tune, night time if you feel hungry open the fridge and enjoy the meal)

I thought when i'll reach home i'll again enjoy the same time I had earlier.
when I reach home I was surprised that they are getting old now but still try to be happy so, that i'll feel okay and feel like everything is same. the real side is still missing that they are dependent on other for everything they don't have burden of office or any kid the life for them was really changed the eyes are covered with spectacles, life for them is just inside the four wall of house. There was no one for them to ask do they need anything. Are they all okay?

We kids are so selfish that we even forgotten our parents in our day to day offices or friends.
I tried to be with them the whole time i am at home but still i can't bring those 3 years which they want me to be with them. The time when my dad was not able to see , take him to the doctor, may be I hadn't received the call. After that with the excuse sorry papa i was in the meeting.

How time flies with the blink of an eye only the regret left after that.